It could be argued that abortion is a matter of concern primarily for women. Such is the prevailing opinion. Many men experience a sense of powerlessness. It is frequently asserted that they are not permitted to discuss the matter.
It is, in fact, the case that men are of the utmost importance. The prevention of abortion is not possible without the involvement of men.
The following section will outline the ways in which men can make a difference.
(1) It is recommended that support be provided to women and children.
It is regrettable that fathers do not frequently demonstrate support for women and value their unborn children. In many instances, they believe that because they lack legal authority, they should refrain from involvement. In many instances, women are left to cope with their situation independently. Consequently, abortion is more likely to occur.
Indeed, research indicates that the attitude of the father is frequently a significant factor in a woman’s decision about whether or not to have an abortion. A study published in BMC Women’s Health revealed that 31% of women seeking an abortion cited factors related to their partner as a reason for the termination of the pregnancy.
A study conducted by the Guttmacher Institute revealed that over half of women who underwent abortions cited concerns about their relationship or their status as single mothers as the primary reason for terminating the pregnancy. … Many of these women were disillusioned because their partner had reacted to the pregnancy by denying paternity, breaking off communication with them or stating that they did not want a child.
It is evident that fathers often play a pivotal role, and that they have the potential to make a significant impact. When fathers assume a more active role and when women receive the support they require, lives are saved. It is evident that men can facilitate this outcome.
(2) Narrate accounts.
The United States has the highest number of abortions in the world, with over 63 million performed since 1973. This has had a profound impact on the lives of tens of millions of men in various ways. “Regardless of marital status, whether in a casual or committed relationship, some men experience significant challenges following an abortion,” states Dr. Catherine Coyle in her review of the impact of abortion on men.
Some fathers have been instrumental in facilitating abortions, whether through encouragement, coercion, or acquiescence. In the aftermath of these actions, they have expressed profound regret. Some fathers observed the termination of their unborn children against their wishes. Some fathers assisted their partner in rejecting an abortion, even in challenging circumstances.
All of these men have narratives to convey. These narratives elucidate the detrimental impact of abortion, not merely on the unborn child, but also on women and men. They can motivate others to safeguard and defend life.
(3) Become involved in the pro-life movement.
It is imperative that men, as well as women, advocate for the respect and protection of unborn children and support for their mothers. This may entail initiating discourse and attempting to enlighten, persuade, or inspire others. It may also entail volunteering at a pregnancy care centre. It may also entail involvement with pro-life organisations that educate the general public. This may entail providing support for pro-life legislative or political initiatives.
Some individuals contend that men lack the right to express themselves in this manner. It is indeed the case that pregnancy and abortion have a distinctive impact on women. Women have a unique relationship with the children they carry within their bodies, a relationship that is exclusive to them. It is evident that men do not and cannot have the same experiences and challenges as women.
It is also true that an individual’s experience, or lack thereof, does not negate the fact that unborn children are human beings, that all human beings matter, or that the intentional attack and destruction of these beings is unjust.
It is evident that a significant proportion of women hold these beliefs, and there are compelling reasons for doing so. It is imperative that men also join them. Abortion represents a human catastrophe, and it therefore behoves us all to take action to address this issue.
Daniel Miller is responsible for nearly all of National Right to Life News' political writing.
With the election of Donald Trump to the U.S. presidency, Daniel Miller developed a deep obsession with U.S. politics that has never let go of the political scientist. Whether it's the election of Joe Biden, the midterm elections in Congress, the abortion rights debate in the Supreme Court or the mudslinging in the primaries - Daniel Miller is happy to stay up late for you.
Daniel was born and raised in New York. After living in China, working for a news agency and another stint at a major news network, he now lives in Arizona with his two daughters.
